I don't know whether it is the feminization of Christianity,
mistaking
                                    Love with following the line of least resistance or both,
but it sure seems like there are very few defenders of the faith
left
                                    in the church today.
Folks like Hank Hannegraff (Bible Answer Man) at:
                                     http://equip.org
                                    
Hank usually has just as many
                                    if not more people that hate him than admire him.
If Love meant following the line of least resistance then Jesus,
Paul
                                    and folks like Walter Martin and Hank got it wrong.
You usually don't see women in this capacity.
In fact I
                                    cannot think of one woman that is effective in apologetics or ministry to cults.
Now women are just as gifted as men
                                    in capacities that are just as valuable as mens but is debate and confrontation one of them?
My experience with women
                                    that try to be confrontational is that they can be nasty, going for the jugular and making more personal attacks than actually
                                    critiquing the beliefs.
One woman chose to question my conversion rather than debating my beliefs. She even chose to
                                    start calling me Saul for a majority of the discussion.
Ever seen two women physically fighting?
It is a horrible
                                    thing to watch.
Could it be that for this reason that we don't have an apostle
Paulette or the Gospel of Joan?
Yet
                                    i have seen women including my wife that are gifted in such
things as encouragement, counseling and helps etc.
I
                                    have seen women that know just as much scripture as men but does this mean that they are good at debating?
I think
                                    that we do have the feminization of Christianity when
defending the faith and apologetics are downplayed and a touchy feely
                                    Christianity takes it's place.
Loving the Lord with our minds is just as important as loving Him
with our hearts.
The
                                    eye shouldn't say that it doesn't need the hand and vice versa.
 
                                    When I first became a Christian I studied the basic doctrines of
                                    the bible and how they are different from what the cults teach. 
                                     
                                    This helped me to dig into and remember scripture. 
                                     
                                    I even read works from Walter Martin and such. 
                                     
                                    As the years progressed, other Christians started condemning this
                                    kind of approach as too intellectual, too confrontational, too unloving.  However, this condemnation was more from girls
                                    or girly men.
                                     
                                    So for a long time I heeded the warnings and got involved in the
                                    Vineyard, Calvary Chapel Movement. 
                                     
                                    I appreciate this time and still do. The Worship really renews
                                    my spirit. 
                                     
                                    It also renewed my interest in music, especially seeing that I
                                    was raised singing boring Hymns, though an occassional hymn sung acapella stirs my soul. 
                                     
                                    The Charismatic Movement's countering of  'Loving
                                    the Lord' with one's mind with, 'Loving the Lord' with one's heart, in effect created a false balance where the heart was
                                    emphasized at the expense of the mind. 
                                     
                                    "The range among the other denominations follow the pattern, with
                                    the charismatic churches having a higher proportion of women." 
                                     
                                    I went through a kind of aimless existence during this time because
                                    I was neglecting what I was originally gifted with and more inclined to do as a man. 
                                     
                                    I even heard one of the worship leaders admonish the men in the
                                    worship service to become more like the women who were already fully participating in the worship service. 
                                     
                                    This set off an alarm in me that got me thinking. 
                                     
                                    Has Western Christianity become too girly?
                                     
                                    Could this even be the reason so many effeminates are infiltrating
                                    our ranks and neglecting the scriptures command to 'rightly divide the word of truth.' 
                                     
                                    Is this part of the reason that Christianity has been reluctant
                                    to confront Liberal Christianity?
                                     
                                     Now some quotes from the article to pique your interest:
                                    
                                    "At one American Seminary in the 1940's, a professor developed a
                                    following, which later matured into a small cult. He explained Catholic devotion to Mary in this way: men have a more distant
                                    relationship with their fathers than with their mothers. They therefore have more trouble relating to a masculine God (the
                                    Father or Jesus) than to the reflection of maternal love in Mary. Devotion to Mary, on this view but, should be stressed more
                                    than devotion to Christ. Despite the extraordinary theological implications of this line of thought, the professor obviously
                                    struck a nerve in his seminary and disciples: they were the sort of men who felt more comfortable with the feminine than with
                                    the masculine. The situation holds true in most of the Protestant clergy. Mary was not available, but first sentimentality,
                                    and now feminism, have filled the void."
                                     
                                    "The most feminized denominations are the liberal denominations while
                                    the largest male attendance is in evangelical and fundamental churches. Also in the mainline denominations the seminary enrollment
                                    is mostly female. In the years ahead the mainline denominational pastors will be predominantly women. What's wrong is that
                                    men are not responding to God. Also, the actual teaching in the church has been affected by this phenomenon. The church doctrines
                                    such as judgment, sin and repentance are more masculine in characteristic and if neglected, easy universalism (everyone is
                                    saved) takes its place." - Leone Podles
 
                                    Now For the Rrrrrrrrrrrrrest of the Story: